“What you are looking for is what is looking.” – St. Francis of Assisi Have you noticed how persistently the mind clings to the story of “not good enough”? This persistent doubt isn’t personal — it’s not your flaw or mine. It’s the universal ego phenomena at work, a force...

“The ego is not who you are. The ego is your self-image; it is your social mask; it is the role you are playing. Your social mask thrives on approval. Your real self is immune to criticism.” – Deepak Chopra Have you ever noticed how your most stressful moments at...

“Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?” – Anthony de Mello Have you noticed how much energy we spend defending our opinions? We argue, debate, and sometimes damage relationships – all to prove we’re right. But here’s a liberating truth: being right isn’t what makes us...

“Watch your thoughts like a cat watches a mouse hole.” – Zen Proverb Let me share something personal about my relationship with golf and money – two areas where I’ve witnessed the ego’s most desperate dance for control. On the golf course, I occasionally experience moments of pure magic. The...

“The ego’s need to be right is a form of violence.” – Eckhart Tolle The world doesn’t need more people trying to prove they’re right. It needs more awareness, more understanding, more recognition of our shared human experience. This begins with you, now, in this moment, choosing to rest as...

“What you resist, persists. What you accept, transforms.” – Eckhart Tolle Who promised you a smooth road? Take a moment to consider this. Who guaranteed your employees would never quit unexpectedly? That your business partner would never disagree with your vision? That your spouse would always understand you? That your...